3.6.11

ENFJ

I did say I have an obsession for dresses earlier right? The one I'm wearing below, from the store Fizzen, is my favorite. It's not too short, not too hot, not too girly, but just right. The polka dots add a cute flair and give a sense of relief from all the floral prints I've been seeing around lately.



The other day I was talking with my friend about personalities, and she gave me this book to read called Please Understand Me (by David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates). This was a while ago, but yesterday I decided to pick it up and give it a shot. At the beginning you have to take this test, which has 70 questions, all seemingly asking the same thing (but I guess not), and you fill out a chart with your answers. Your answers correspond to a different personality type. My Personality type is ENFJ, which stands for:

Extraversion
N-intuition
Feeling
Judging



And whilst reading the description of an ENFJ person, I just couldn't believe it: it was accurate. It said that I seek for perfection in all relationships, am an outstanding leader in groups, have an "unusual ability to relate to others with empathy, taking into themselves the characteristics, emotions, and beliefs of others", and that I am verbally adept. 

I found taking this test really valuable, and have just started reading the rest of the book, which compares and contrasts different personality types, says which types get along the best (and which the worst), and how to capitalize on the personality type of someone else. I would really suggest to take a test like I did. It's really cool to see how people work and how everyone is different. You can take the test at any registered psychologist, online here, or in the book Please Understand Me


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14 comments:

  1. I like this post, beautiful photos)

    come in to my blog too; *
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  2. that reminds me, i'm in the middle of reading the book you borrowed me.

    i'll give it back asap :D thanks for lettingme borrow it :D

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  3. LOVE THE POLKA DOTS! this is such a dreamy shot :)

    xoxo

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  4. sweet dress :)

    x Camilla

    intothefoldfashion.blogspot.com

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  5. lovely dress, very cute ;)


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  6. this is beyond beautiful!!!!!!!loveit xx

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  7. Pretty pretty polka dots!! Love the look. :)

    xx Laura

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